Time. A measurable dimension that simultaneously has the ability to seem immeasurable.
Time. A comprehensive ordering of past, present, and future.
Time. A record of our lives, a storybook both written and not yet penned.
“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us.”
–Charles Dickens, A Tale of Two Cities
It’s a funny thing how one moment in time can move by at a pace so vastly different from one person to another. It’s why I stopped putting a timeline on hope, healing, love, change, and growth.
When I look back at the year and realize my friends in grad school only have one more year left–my, how quickly time flies.
When I reflect on the year incrementally–my, how fast time passes by.
When I think of the year as a whole–my oh my, how the clock ticked slowly by.
It wasn’t until a short but sweet Christmas card to me that I realized all that was January through December had only spanned 12 months. The card simply read: “I am so proud of all you have done this year.”
I had to double-check the dates on some of my blog posts from 2018, referencing electronic stamps that suspended my thoughts and experiences at one moment… in time. I feel so different from the way I felt a year ago. I’ve evolved so much from the woman I was ten, five, three years ago. In 2015, life gave me experiences. In 2018, I experienced life.
2018 was not monumental in the places I went or the people I met. It was monumental in the way I chose to direct my own path. It was made up of the feelings I felt, the decisions I made, and the strength I persevered. It was a year that started out moving slower than one day at a time, and ended with the exciting promise of tomorrow.
The big changes in my life last year hold less significance than the endurance and risk-taking it took to get there, the willpower and patience it took to listen to myself, and the wisdom it took to learn from my past to shape my present and invest in my future.
I don’t want to find myself saying at the end of next year, “There wasn’t enough time.” I’d like to think that instead I might say, “I made time.”